From the monthly archives:

April 2010

Food, Sex, or Sleep

April 27, 2010

When I was in college one of my friends once posed the question to me, “So, if you had to choose only one, which would it be; food, sex or sleep?”
I think I said sex, because I wanted to sound cool and edgy. However, as an over worked college student, I am sure the [...]

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My Husband Loves Porn

April 26, 2010

Q: I accidentally found out that my husband has been watching a lot of porn on his computer. Should I be upset?
A: Funny you should ask this, because I know that many women are bothered by the idea of their husbands/boyfriends watching porn. I admit, I also used to think it [...]

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BDSM Lite

April 23, 2010

A few months ago, Brandon bought us some handcuffs to use in the bedroom. They were fuzzy and sexy, so who was I to say no.
Brandon pulled them out the other night to spice things up.
He knows I need a Master Chef in the bedroom. No boring, baked chicken for me. [...]

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How Much Would You Charge for Sex?

April 21, 2010

The premise behind Indecent Proposal has always stuck with me. A hot, older, very rich, Robert Redford offers to pay Demi Moore $1 million for a night with her.
So, it got me thinking, would I do it if given the opportunity?
The Catholic angel sitting on my shoulder would say, “No way, it’s immoral, don’t [...]

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Should I Bring a Third Person to Bed?

April 20, 2010

In the interest of research, I have been watching some very amusing adult entertainment lately. I realized that I get quite turned on when watching a threesome.
Maybe it’s the excitement of doing something French, like a ménage à trois.
The truth is having a threesome is something that I never even really considered.
I [...]

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Review: Secret Diary of a Call Girl

April 18, 2010

So here’s a show right up my alley: Secret Diary of a Call Girl.
The show is about ‘Belle’, played by Billie Piper, and her life as a high class call girl.
Her family thinks that she is a secretary, but her best mate, Ben knows the truth.
Every week there is an [...]

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Dr. Seuss on Sex

April 17, 2010

My friend Susan recently had sex in a parked car. I remember doing that at age 17, when beds were hard to find and parents were uptight.
We were joking about the bruises on her arms, and legs from being so confined. Then she told me about how she once gave a blow job [...]

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How Long After Divorce to Have Sex?

April 16, 2010

Q: How long after my divorce do I have to wait to have sex?
A: Well, I think it depends on what you are looking for. Are you anxious to have sex because it’s been a while, or are you looking for a long term relationship?
Going through a divorce is very stressful, so be [...]

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How Long Do You Wait to Have Sex?

April 14, 2010

It is amazing to me how when you have sex with someone can change dramatically through your life.
When I was in high school, I had a great boyfriend. He bought me Calvin Klein jeans for my birthday, roses for Christmas, and gave me sex on New Year’s Eve.

We had met at one of my [...]

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When to Lose Virginity

April 12, 2010

Q: I just had the “talk” with my daughter. She is 10 years old and wants to know when I lost my virginity. I was 16 years old, but really want my daughter to wait until she is older. Should I be honest or tell her I was older than I was?
A: [...]

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