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How do I get my partner to…

June 22, 2010

Q: How do I get my partner to make love to me the way I really want? I would love for him to take things slower. Kiss me from head to toe and back again. I am afraid of hurting his ego if I tell him. Any advice?
A: I think your [...]

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Should I Shave My Pubic Hair?

May 12, 2010

Q: My boyfriend has hinted that he wants me to shave it all off down there, but I’m not convinced. What do you think?
A: It seems to be in style these days to be very groomed in the pubic area, especially as bathing suit weather is approaching.
The good news/bad news about shaving [...]

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Crazy Sex Fantasies

May 11, 2010

Q: I am 37 years old and happily married. Lately, I have been having crazy sex dreams and fantasies. Everything from having sex on a horse to doing it with my hot neighbor. What do you think is going on with me?
A: Well, the easy answer lies within your age. You are a 37 [...]

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Should I Have an Affair?

May 1, 2010

Q: I am unhappily married and have been that way for a while now. There is a guy in my office who is in the same boat. We have joked about having an affair. Part of me really wants to do it, but I am scared. Any advice?
A: I think [...]

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My Husband Loves Porn

April 26, 2010

Q: I accidentally found out that my husband has been watching a lot of porn on his computer. Should I be upset?
A: Funny you should ask this, because I know that many women are bothered by the idea of their husbands/boyfriends watching porn. I admit, I also used to think it [...]

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How Long After Divorce to Have Sex?

April 16, 2010

Q: How long after my divorce do I have to wait to have sex?
A: Well, I think it depends on what you are looking for. Are you anxious to have sex because it’s been a while, or are you looking for a long term relationship?
Going through a divorce is very stressful, so be [...]

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When to Lose Virginity

April 12, 2010

Q: I just had the “talk” with my daughter. She is 10 years old and wants to know when I lost my virginity. I was 16 years old, but really want my daughter to wait until she is older. Should I be honest or tell her I was older than I was?
A: [...]

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I Think My Husband is Cheating on Me on Facebook

April 10, 2010

Q: My husband is friends with all of his old girlfriends on Facebook and he chats with them all of the time on there. Whenever I come near him and he’s on there, he quickly closes the browser. Should I be concerned?
A: Hello kettle, this is pot calling. Most everyone I know has at [...]

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My Husband Doesn’t Want to Have Sex With Me

April 9, 2010

Q: Ok, so I love my husband and he says he loves me, but we haven’t had sex in 2 1/2 months. I have started just talking to a guy on chat because he says great things to me and we used to date. But I don’t want to leave my husband… what do [...]

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Is It Safe to Eat Food from a Vagina?

April 4, 2010

Q: Is it safe to eat food from my wife’s vagina?
A: That brings new meaning to eating out, right?
When I think of food and sex, I can’t help but think of how the two were so delicious in 9 1/2 Weeks. SEXY!

Then there is that episode of Seinfeld when George was eating the [...]

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